4 Parenting Tips from My Mom That I Carry into My Own Journey

When it comes to parenting, the wisdom of those who came before us often shapes the way we raise our children. My mother, Dr. Nicole, shared invaluable advice that has guided me as I navigate motherhood. Her words weren’t just practical tips; they were pillars of love, confidence, and connection. These four principles have become the foundation of how I nurture my boys, Asher and August, and I’m thrilled to share them with you.

1. Exposure Builds Confidence

My mom always emphasized the importance of exposing children to new experiences. Whether it’s traveling to new places, trying different foods, or meeting people from diverse backgrounds, these moments expand a child’s perspective. Exposure builds confidence by showing them the vastness of the world and their place within it.

When children are introduced to new experiences early on, they learn resilience, adaptability, and the courage to explore. I’ve seen this firsthand with my own boys—when they discover something new, their faces light up with excitement and pride. My mom’s advice has taught me to prioritize these moments, understanding that each one lays a brick in the foundation of their self-assurance.

2. Love Them Deeply and Show Them They Are Enough

One of the most powerful lessons my mom taught me is that children need to feel loved unconditionally and reminded of their intrinsic worth. By showing them they are “enough” just as they are, we shield them from seeking validation from the outside world.

I remember when I was a kid and I rode my bike to my friends house, after my mom told me not to. After she made me come home, I still remember crying in her arms as she hugged me on the couch. Showing me that yes I was wrong, but she still loved me.  I was also known as a cry baby and I hated doing anything wrong, and my oldest son is the same way. Even when I was disobedient, she poured love into me. This is a reminder to always pour love in your children, no matter what they do, so they don’t try to feel the void elsewhere.

3. Build a Strong Family Foundation Around Meals Together

Some of my favorite childhood memories are of sitting at the table, sharing meals with my family. My mom believed that eating together was more than just a daily routine; it was a sacred time to connect, share stories, and create a sense of unity.

Now, as a parent, I prioritize family meals in the same way. No matter how busy our lives get, dinner is a time to put the world aside and focus on each other. These moments teach children the value of connection, create lasting memories, and provide a safe space where they feel heard and supported.

4. Foster a Strong Spiritual Foundation

For my mom, spirituality was the compass that guided her parenting, and she instilled the same in me. A strong spiritual foundation gives children a sense of purpose, belonging, and peace. It teaches them to look inward for strength and upward for guidance.

In our family, spirituality takes many forms—prayers before meals, expressing gratitude daily, or simply marveling at the beauty of nature. This foundation has become a cornerstone of my parenting, helping my boys understand the importance of faith, mindfulness, and the power of something greater than themselves.

Parenting with Purpose

My mom’s advice reminds me that parenting isn’t about perfection; it’s about being intentional. These four pillars—exposure, unconditional love, a strong family foundation, and spirituality—are not just tips; they’re tools to help children grow into confident, compassionate, and grounded individuals.

As I guide my sons through life, I often find myself hearing my mom’s voice in my head, reminding me of these timeless lessons. Her wisdom not only shaped the parent I’ve become but also ensures that her legacy of love and connection will continue through the next generation.

What advice have you carried into your own parenting journey? Let’s keep the conversation going in the comments below.